Still Here · friendships

Stay close to the people who used to be close.

Add the friends you keep meaning to text. Still Here keeps a quiet eye on who you have not talked to in a while and drafts a personal opener.

It reads the notes you have on each friend — what you have been up to, what they have been up to, what you talked about last time — and writes a message that sounds like the relationship, not a LinkedIn check-in.

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What you actually get

You added

Maya Chen

College roommate. New baby, hates small talk, loves indie folk. Last real conversation was 4 months ago, around when the baby came.

What you actually get

Sample conversation

Warm

Hey Maya, I have been thinking about you and wondering how life is treating you since the baby arrived. No pressure to respond, just sending some warmth your way.

Low-stakes. Acknowledges the major life change without demanding anything back.

Callback

Random thought: I heard a new Bon Iver track the other day and immediately thought of our late-night listening sessions back in the dorm. Made me miss our talks.

References a real shared thing. Gives her something easy to respond to or not.

Forward

I am curious how you are navigating parenthood. Have you discovered any unexpected joys or hilarious moments with the little one?

Shows genuine interest in her current life stage and invites her to share on her own terms.

The opener reads what you wrote on Maya. Replace any phrase you want before sending.

How it works

  1. 1

    Add the people you keep meaning to text

    Name, how you know them, what is going on in their life right now, anything you have been meaning to ask. The more you write, the better the openers get.

  2. 2

    Still Here watches quietly

    When it has been a while since you talked, you get a single nudge. One opener draft. Three tones to choose from.

  3. 3

    You send it, or you do not

    No streaks. No 'you have not texted in 87 days.' Mark it sent when you do, and Still Here backs off for a while.

Who this is for

  • +You have a list of 5-10 people you keep meaning to text but never do.
  • +You moved away from a city and the friendships you had there are drifting.
  • +You had a kid or a busy season and lost touch with people you did not want to lose touch with.
  • +You want a low-key way to keep up, not a CRM for your friendships.

Not for

  • —If your circle is small and tight, just text them. This is for the people you are about to lose.
  • —If you are looking for a dating app or a way to meet new people, this is not it.

Pricing

Free for 3 friends. Then $5/mo for unlimited.

Still Here Plus · $5/mo

Unlimited friends. Weekly nudges. Daily on-demand openers. Personal context memory per friend. Cancel any time.

Common questions

Is this creepy?
It is a draft. You read it, edit it, and you send it. Nothing gets sent automatically. The context you write about your friends stays in your account and is never shared or used to train models.
What does the nudge look like?
One email a week, listing the friends you have not talked to recently. Click into any one of them to see the openers. You can mute individual friends or the whole thing.
Will it text people for me automatically?
No. We do not believe in that. It drafts. You send. The whole point is to keep the relationship human.
What if I have not talked to someone in 5 years?
Still Here will not push you. It will just quietly include them in your list so you can write a personal opener when you are ready. Some friendships need a long runway.

Add the people you keep meaning to text.

Free for your first three friends. $5/mo after that. Cancel any time.

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